Louie's story


Louie
Edmonson is a toddler living life to the full. He was identified at
birth as having a hearing problem in both ears, news which shocked his
parents, Jody and Paul. The National Deaf Children’s Society’s ‘Newly
Identified Weekend’ helped the Edmondsons realise that they weren’t
alone. Louie was born on 18 December 2005 and was immediately
identified with both microtia – an underdeveloped ear – and artresea –
a congenital imperforation or closure of the normal channel in the
ears. He saw various consultants and was checked with a ‘New Born’ test
and officially identified as having moderate hearing loss. “Our
immediate reaction was that of being extremely upset,” says Paul. “We
were frightened for his future. There was also great confusion, even
guilt, as to how this could have happened. There was no history of
deafness in our families. Unfortunately in Louie’s case there were no
real answers.”
At just three months old, Louie had a hearing aid
fitted which gives him 100% hearing. “It was a godsend and allowed us
to take the oral communication route. We worked hard on constantly
talking to him and now his listening skills are excellent.”
Parents
of newly diagnosed children also need support with emotional issues.
“It took a long time to come to terms with his condition,” explains
Paul. “It was the unknown that troubled us the most: what would happen
and how we would cope with it. And then it was the fear that he might
not speak.” This was short-lived: Louie’s first word was said at seven
months old and he now has over 30 words in his vocabulary.
“Now,
our greatest fear is that he may not be accepted by other children.
Fortunately he’s turned out to have a great, outgoing personality so we
are perhaps a little less anxious about that now.”
In order to
help them deal with the issues, Louie’s family attended one of the NDCS
residential courses for families with deaf children who have been newly
diagnosed.
These ‘Newly Identified Weekends’ give families the
opportunity to gain information about the support available and share
experiences with other parents. Their children meanwhile, are looked
after by experts and offered a range of activities.
“It was a
heart-wrenching and emotional experience,” says Paul, “but an extremely
rewarding one. It started off with all the families being fairly
guarded but when we were put into groups all the emotions came out!
This was followed by a number of group tasks and various speakers who
helped to answer our questions.
“We came away having learnt a great
deal about deafness in general, and it really helped us to realise that
we weren’t on our own with Louie’s condition.”